Dating a Nigerian woman has some kind of conditions you have to satisfy before she agrees to date you. Such conditions are different from one lady to another. Some wants a tall, handsome man while some want a rich young man, without taking his physical looks into consideration. It differs for different women.
However, there are some insane reasons why some few Nigerian ladies won’t just date you. Four of them are listed as follows;
1.) “I cannot possibly be with a guy that is too peaceful”
If you have been watching the Big Brother Naija Lockdown show, then you must have been very suprises when Nengi told Ozo that she couldn’t date him because he’s not man of war.
That is to say, Nengi does not want gentle man and that’s quite dificult to understand. I mean, who’s that kind of lady that doesn’t dream and hope to end up with a gentleman? This crazy reason is driving me insane, sincerely. Lol!
2.) “You don’t hit me”
If you think that it is impossible for a woman to desire a man who physically hits them, you are very wrong. Because, we have some few weird people living among us, and they often post videos on Instagram showing us just how strange they are.
3.) “Other women are not attracted to you”
I actually saw something like this on Joro’s blog several months back, and it made me think somehow. I was like “how are you going to reject someone because other ladies don’t find him attractive? That’s quite weird.
4.) “You don’t cheat”
Is faithfulness no longer a good thing? Is that not what women have always been campaigning for? When was the focus shifted? It’s quite worthy to note that there are some few ladies that won’t just date you because you aren’t promiscous.
A lady once told me that I’m boring because she learnt that I don’t drink or smoke. After that date, I never contacted again. I was like, “in a world where ladies are praying for men that doesn’t do the two, and one lady is telling me I’m boring because I don’t.”
Believe me, there are strange reasons why some ladies won’t date you.
Thanks for reading!
Oduse David is a Digital Journalist that writes content based on national and social issues.